"I like spontaneity when it comes to sex, scheduled sex just seems too bland or routine"
"Sex shouldn't be something you have to schedule a good sex life just happens"
"If you schedule sex then you take out all the fun of it"
These are all lies and awful ones at that. In this episode we're going to talk about why the idea of spontaneous sex is really not the approach you should be taking when it comes to your sex life. In fact, sex should be quite the opposite of spontaneous, it should be a priority.
But we're not just talking about scheduling sex, we're digging into what people really want when they say that sex shouldn't be scheduled it should be spontaneous.
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